November 12, 2012

Have you confronted your dream? Your personal calling?

I've been reading Paulo Coelho's "The Alchemist" and I agree with Times, full on, on saying that his books have had a life enhancing impact on millions of people.
I've loved this book so much - I might just read it all over again!

Anyway, this post is to share with you'll the Author's Note. Just think about reasons why you think you're on Earth and the things you've done in order to live up to that reason.
With that at the back of your head, just read this abstract: 

What is a personal calling?
- It is God's blessing, it is the path that God chose for you here on Earth.
Whenever we do something that fills us with enthusiasm, we are following our legend. However, we don't all have the courage to confront our own dream. Why?

There are four obstacles.
First, we are told from childhood on wards that everything we want to do is impossible  We grow up with this idea, and as the years accumulate, so too do the layers of prejudice  fear and guilt.  There comes a time when our personal calling is so deeply buried in our soul as to be invisible. But, it's still there.

If we have the courage to disinter our dream, we are then faced by the second obstacle - love. We know what we want to do, but are afraid of hurting those around us by abandoning everything in order to pursue our dream. We do not realize that love is just a further impetus, not something that will prevent us going forward, and that those who genuinely wish us well want us to be happy and are prepared to accompany us on that journey.

Once we have accepted that love is a stimulus  we come up against the third obstacle: fear of the defeats we will meet on the path. We who fight for our dream suffer far more when it doesn't workout, because we cannot fall back on the old excuse  "Oh, well, I didn't really want that anyway." We do want it and know that we have staked everything on it and that the path of the personal calling is no easier than any other path, except that our whole heart is in this journey. Then, we, the warriors of light must be prepared to have patience in difficult times and to know that the Universe is conspiring in our favor  even though we may not understand how.

I ask myself: are defeats necessary? Well, necessary or not, they happen. When we first begin fighting for our dream, we have no experience and make many mistakes. The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times.

So, why is it so important to live our personal calling if we are only going to suffer more than other people? Because once we have overcome the defeats - and we always do - we are filled with a greater sense of euphoria and confidence  In the silence of our hearts, we know that we are proving ourselves worthy of the miracle of life. Each day, each hour, is part of the good fight. We start to live with enthusiasm and pleasure. Intense, unexpected suffering passes more quickly than suffering that is apparently bearable; the latter goes on for years and, without our noticing  eats away at our soul, until, one day, we are no longer able to free ourselves from the bitterness and it stays with us for the rest of our lives.

Having disinterred our dream, having used the power of love to nurture it and spent many years living with the scars, we suddenly notice that what we always wanted is there  waiting for us, perhaps the very next day. Then comes the fourth obstacle: the fear of realizing the dream for which we have fighting all of our lives.

Oscar Wilde said, "Each man kills the thing he loves." And it's true. The mere possibility of getting what we want fills the soul of the ordinary person with guilt.We look around to those who have failed to get what they want and feel that we do not deserve to get what we want either. We forget about all the obstacles we overcame, all the suffering we endured, all the things we had to give up in order to get this far. I have known a lot of people who, when their personal calling was within their grasp,went on to commit a series of stupid mistakes and never reached their goal when it was only a step away.

This is the most dangerous of obstacles because it has a kind of saintly aura about it: renouncing joy and conquest. But if you believe yourself worthy of the thing you fought so hard to get, then you become an instrument of God, you help the Soul of the World, and you understand why you are here.

~ Paulo Coelho